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Jayasri Tangirala
Sep 2026 • linkedin
Public post
Sep 2026 • linkedin
How to stop caring what other people think of you. Harvard Professor Arthur C. Brooks wrote in 2021 that almost all of our anxiety comes from one question: What will people think of me? He said the solution is not to not care at all. It is to care wisely. He gave 3 steps. Here is the deep science behind each one. *STEP 1: Remind yourself that no one cares as much as you think.* *Psychology: The Spotlight Effect* Psychologists Gilovich and Savitsky proved we overestimate by 50% how much others notice us. You think …
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